Straight from the horses mouth!

Hey hop your all well!

I was speaking with a friend of mine today and we got onto the topic of chatting people up. I asked her do men normally appear sleazy or rude when they approach you, as this is one of the major hang ups I have is looking sleazy when approaching girls. She said some do but the majority of me have enough decorum to come across at worst pleasant.

This was a revelation for me as I always thought that I would come across like a dirty old man if I didn’t get it right when chatting to a girl. She advised that the best thing a man can do when he talks to a girl is listen, that’s why we have two ears and one mouth apparently! She said there is nothing more frustrating than a man that comes over filled with his own self importance and spends the next hour telling you all about me, me, me!

She said her three top tips when talking to a woman are:

1)    Eye contact (a must)

2)    Listen to what the girl is actually saying and not what you think she is saying!

3)    Smile; show the girl your fun to be with!

Well that has certainly given me something to consider, although I’m sure I have tried all the above but maybe not all at the same time.

Anyway guys give it a go and feel free to let me know how it goes, as I will you. So go on feel the fear and do it anyway!