Talking with your body - Part 2

Hey Guys,

Hope you have taken in what we discussed last time, about eye contact, smiling, holding yourself correctly and noticing her body language and beginning to read it!

This will inevitably help you improve your confidence as you will know she wants you to come over a flirt with her!!!


In this post we will be going into more detail on specifics of body language:

Ok now if your reading this then you were once like me "Mr Shy Guy", you see a really cute girl and you really, really want to go and chat with her. Unfortunately the fear kicks in and totally immobilizes you and you basically just freeze! I know i've been there and it's the worst thing ever, because all you can say to your self is if only i could speak with her, if only!

But what were all really afraid of and what that fear we feel is REJECTION. Were afraid that if we go over and speak with a beautiful women, that we wont even register on her radar and she will just snub us!

Now i know not many if any of you have experienced this because, your afraid to go and find out, and hey it's not a problem 75% of men say they are scared of a women rejecting them.

What I am going to teach you in this and the next few posts is the basics of Body Language - How attract that beauty in the corner with your body!!!!

Ok so let set up the useful scene. Your in a bar and you turn round and notice this gorgeous women by the bar. You want to go and talk to her but you freeze, you get the fear of rejection ect, ect.

So how to we get rid of this fear!!!!

Well what we need to do is establish if the girl is interested in us first.

So we need create attraction with our body!!!

Firstly we need you to relax because i know what you do you see the girl start thinking about approaching her and tense up, as i have said in  my last post women are like poker players, now wait amazing poker players they are far better at reading body language then we can even imagine. So if your nervous, scared and tense this will show through your subconscious body language.

First take a DEEP breath, hold it in (don't suffocate) then exhale. repeat this 3 times this will release the tension in your shoulders and your chest! 

Ok now start moving, walk around a little wiggle your fingers, and laugh! Think of something that cracks you up, maybe your favorite comic has a gag that just kills you every time you here it. Think of that and laugh.  When we laugh we dissipate any tension or unease we have in our body and also,it's been proven that a person smiling looks 85% more attractive than if your not. I think this is because we want to be around happy people and people that are going to make us happy! makes sense really!

Ok so how can we tell if she's interested?

Well first we need to make eye contact, this is the crucial first step. Look over at her catch her eyes and hold her gaze for about 4 seconds, look away for 4 seconds and then look back at her for 4 seconds.

If she is interested and likes the look of you she may do a number of things, the obvious is smile at you! If she smiles make sure she shows her teeth as when we are genuinely and excited we show our teeth when we smile. Also she may flick her hair or twirl her hair around her finger this is the look at me i'm playing coy move, she is trying to so she is available! Another sign is for the women to move her hiar to one side of her neck exposing her neck which is a erogenous zone and shows
vulnerability!!! A classic is for her to start to run her fingers across her chest or hold her hand on her chest.

What we need to remember with body language is not to take each of the above signal in isolation as they may just be habits she has. You need to look for a group of movements, such as when you  look at her for the second time she may begin twirling her hair, smile and run her fingers across her chest.

If you see these signs smile back and see if her she smiles or carries on smiling. If so then you in!!!!!!

In my next post i will be exposing some more tell, tell signs she LIKES YOU and how to improve your chances with her using your body!!

Untill next time!!

Remember all you have to fear is fear it's self!!!