Talking With Your Body Part 3

Ok in my last few posts i have talked about, the basics of body language and how to hold your self, how to look more attractive, and how to see if the opposite sex are attracted to you and if you should approach!

Well in this installment we are going to look into building confidence within you and looking confident on the outside, because as much as people deny it the two are related!

Ok so how to we go from a Shy Guy to a confident guy???

Well were going to start with YOU, yes that's right you. The reason i believe we are shy or afraid of speaking with beautiful women is one of two things. We either do think we can offer these girls anything, the old saying " what will she want with me?" comes to mind. Man i've used that to death. And the other reason is we are afraid  of what people with think of us if or when we get rejected by these beautiful women!

But what both of these reasons equates to is fear of REJECTION! Now i know i harp on about this bad boy all the time but hey, this is the one and only reason that Shy Guys fail with women.

However this is a good thing! Yes i say good thing! It is far easier to learn how become more confident then be over confident, cocky and arrogant!

Ok so were afraid of rejection, well step one is to think about this very scenario for a second. Ok lets say you go over to a really hot girl, and you say hey my names James, can i buy you a drink? She says now but you can leave now! and her friends giggle. What you have to realize that this isn't you with bad game this is you running into a complete BITCH and even the best pick up artists would have to pull out there best moves to defrost this ice queen!

Get over it, so what if she blows you off, so what if she snubs you, so what, so what, so what? Your still alive, you can still walk, you can go and speak to another women. And you still live in the knowledge that your a decent human being. The fact that she blew you off could have been hundreds of different things. Like she's had a bad day at work, 3 ass holes could have tried picking her up just before you went over and she just wants to be left alone. It's not always you dude!

Ok, first thing i want you to do is, practice walking with your shoulders back, with chest out and head up! While doing this think of a comedy sketch that just cracks you up every time!  This is to help show you feel good and puts a smile on your face. A smile will increase your attraction by 100% compared to not smiling! So smile be happy, lifes good!

Now when we walk, we walk slower. Take in your surroundings! Confident guys don't rush, their in control, they take their time, the world works to help them! So take your time. One great tip i can give you as well is if you walk into somewhere like a bar or shop, look the girls in the eyes for a few seconds and then move onto the next girl, as we discussed last time the importance of eye contact is immeasurable. Have you ever wanted to be that guy that walks into the bar and all the groups of girls start talking about you, this is a little way to begin to create that "who's that guy" moment and boy what a confidence booster that is.

Ok that will do for this post as i want you to go and practice the above. As usual any issues you wana chat about contact me @ mrshyguyblog@gmai.com

Untill next time
Dillinger